While the length of the book may intimidate it is indeed a worthy read. Wolas writes gradations of her themes through stories within stories. They reflect societal expectations of gender roles as well as family roles. The book explores the conflicts and tensions that arise from trying to meet those beliefs. Joan, the main character, struggles appear the most challenging but each of her sons face similar battles as well.
The book gives insights to how invisible forces in our lives shape us. It is a read that expands understanding of self and provides great fodder for book club discussions.