Book Club Discussion Questions
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About This Book
Seventeen-year-old Tessa was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia
when she was 12. That was the same year that her mother left home. Now, Tessa is
in the finally stages of her illness, and there are a list of things that she
wants to do before she dies. This list confuses her father, who has quit his job
to take care of her, but he ultimately understands that the list helps her focus
on life rather than death. Zoey, Tessa's best friend, is by her side as she
moves down the list. There are many symbolic relationships and events that help
Tessa face her untimely death. Among them are Adam, a neighbor who is dealing
with his own loss, but gives Tessa the romance that she is seeking; her mother's
brief reappearance in her life; and, a return to a favorite family vacation
spot.
Reader's Guide
- Describe Tessa's relationship with her father. How has this
relationship been shaped by Tessa's illness? Debate whether Cal, Tessa's
younger brother, feels neglected by his father. Discuss Tessa's relationship
with her mother. Why did she leave home? When does Tessa miss her mother the
most?
- Discuss the true qualities of a friend. Which of these qualities best
describes Tessa and Zoey's friendship? What does Zoey offer Tessa that her
father cannot give? Why does Tessa's father call Zoey when Tessa won't get
out of bed? Cal hates Zoey. How does Tessa explain her friendship with Zoey
to her little brother?
- Tessa's father is frustrated when she becomes withdrawn. He says, "If
you won't talk about it, how can I help?" (p. 2) How does this withdrawal
represent the first stage of grief? Why is talking about feelings always
better than keeping them to yourself?
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- How does the author develop themes of identity and belonging throughout the narrative?
- What role does the setting play in shaping the characters' decisions and relationships?
- Discuss how the ending reframes the events of the story. Were you surprised?
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