Book Club Discussion Questions for The Course of Love by Alain de Botton

1. What makes this book distinctive?
2. What is the difference between Rabih and Kirsten's views of love at the start and at the end of the story?
3. What does the author mean by 'Romanticism' throughout the book?
4. In what way is Rabih hard to live with?
5. In what way is Kirsten hard to live with?
6. What do the characters gradually learn about one another?
7. Can a good novel be didactic? If not, why not?
8. Does the division into action and italicized commentary work?
9. What are the immature patterns of behavior that make love hard for our couple?
10. What is mature love?

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