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Disappoint Me by Nicola Dinan

Disappoint Me

A Novel

by Nicola Dinan

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  • May 2025, 320 pages
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An electrifying story of love, betrayal, and the complicated allure of bougie domesticity from award-nominated author Nicola Dinan.

I don't know why I feel like I've been caught doing something dirty. Cheating on queerness. Fell down the stairs and woke up a trad wife.

Thirty years old with a lifetime of dysphoria and fuccbois rattling around in her head, Max is plagued by a deep dissatisfaction. Shouldn't these be the best years of her life? Why doesn't it feel that way? After taking a spill down the stairs at a New Year's Eve party, she decides to make some changes. First: a stab at good old-fashioned heteronormativity.

Max thinks she's found the answer in Vincent. While his corporate colleagues, trad friends, and Chinese parents never pictured their son dating a trans woman, he cares for Max in a way she'd always dismissed as a foolish fantasy. But he is also carrying baggage of his own. When the fall-out of a decades-old entanglement resurfaces, Max must decide what forgiveness really means. Can we be more than our worst mistakes? Is it possible to make peace with the past?

Funny, sharp, and poignant, Disappoint Me is a sweeping exploration of love, loss, trans panic, race, millennial angst, and the relationships—familial and romantic—that make us who we are.

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"With this striking work, Dinan establishes herself as an invaluable voice in contemporary fiction." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Bursting with big questions about the politics of romance, family, and care, this novel navigates moral and emotional complexity with grace, nuance, and real storytelling nerve." ―Oisín McKenna, author of Evenings and Weekends

"Hilarious and heartrending in equal measure, with lines so unforgettably funny and true you'll be sending them to your group chat immediately." ―Elaine Castillo, author of How to Read Now

"A charming, big-hearted love story unlike any I've read before ... Dinan forces us to ask ourselves: Are we more than the worst thing we've ever done? An absolute knockout." ―Marisa Crane, author of A Sharp Endless Need

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Trisha

a touching literary fiction
With such a gorgeous cover, I was excited to jump into this. Good things to know before you start - this is definitely literary fiction. It won't be a tension filled plot or a huge rise to a big reveal. It's just a moment in lives that are messy.

We have Max - living life, wondering if she wants that whole traditional boyfriend/relationship that seems like all her friends are starting to jump in to. She's 30 now, does that mean she needs to decide soon?

And we have Vincent. We get before times of Vincent, as he meets up with his friend Fred on a gap year. And we get the now Vincent, cool and calm and very interested in Max.

This was a heavy read, for me, but very realistic. My heart broke, in parts, as Max struggled to find her own answers and juggle demanding respect while also remaining safe. The second story was equally heartbreaking and hard to read it parts. This story was tough but had some really tender, lovely moments.

A huge thank you to the author and publisher for providing an e-ARC via Netgalley. This does not affect my opinion regarding the book.

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Nicola Dinan

Nicola Dinan grew up in Hong Kong and Kuala Lumpur and now lives in London. Bellies, her debut, won the Polari First Book Prize, was shortlisted for the Diverse Book Awards and Mo Siewcharran Prize, was a finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and was longlisted for the Gordon Burn Prize and Brooklyn Public Library Book Prize.

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