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Girl on Girl by Sophie Gilbert

Girl on Girl

How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves

by Sophie Gilbert
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  • Apr 29, 2025, 352 pages
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From Atlantic critic and Pulitzer Prize finalist Sophie Gilbert, a blazing critique of early aughts pop culture.

What happened to feminism in the twenty-first century? This question feels increasingly urgent after a period of cultural and legislative backlash, when widespread uncertainty about the movement's power, focus, and currency threatens decades of progress.

Sophie Gilbert identifies an inflection point in the late 1990s and early 2000s, when the energy of third-wave and "riot grrrl" feminism collapsed into a regressive period of hyper-objectification, sexualization, and infantilization. Gilbert mines the darker side of nostalgia, training her keen analytic eye on the most revealing cultural objects of the era, across music, film, television, fashion, tabloid journalism, and more. And what she recounts is harrowing, from the leering aesthetic of American Apparel ads and explicit music videos to a burgeoning internet culture vicious toward women in the spotlight and damaging for those who weren't. Gilbert tracks many of the period's dominant themes back to the explosion of internet porn, tracing its widespread influence as it began to pervade our collective consciousness.

Gilbert paints a devastating picture of an era when a distinctly American confluence of excess, materialism, and power worship collided with the culture's reactionary, puritanical, and chauvinistic currents. Amid a collective reconsideration of the way women are treated in public, Girl on Girl is a blistering indictment of the matrix of misogyny that undergirded the cultural production of the early twenty-first century, and how it continues to shape our world today.

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Girl on Girl is structured more or less chronologically, starting with a chapter on the changing face of the music industry in the 1990s and wrapping up with a final chapter that touches on the relevance of Gilbert's observations to the 2024 presidential campaign and women's political power (or lack thereof). Along the way, individual chapters focus on the fashion industry, film, reality television, beauty standards, fame, confessional narratives, and more. Although Gilbert's contemporaries—growing up in the 1990s and 2000s and deeply immersed in the pop culture of those eras—will likely find the most touchstones in her narrative, the range of topics she touches on is so broad and her larger points about misogyny and capitalism so universal that a range of readers interested in the intersections of culture and society will find much to appreciate here...continued

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The book takes a hard look at the pop culture of the late '90s and early 2000s—the explosion of tabloid photography, increasingly cruel and ceaseless commentary on celebrity blogs, sexualization of young women by the media, etc.—and the lasting damage it has done to modern women and, possibly, the feminist movement itself. It's a book that will make you think, and want to discuss.

Harper's Bazaar
Add this book to the list of titles that urgently provide context and answers to the hell storm that is [vaguely waves around] everything going on right now ...Gilbert unmasks the collective regression that continues to influence our views on misogyny, feminism, and womanhood today.

Our Culture
Intelligent and enlightening.

The Millions
Gilbert is one of my favorite writers and thinkers, particularly on the subjects of gender and womanhood—and her debut book, which dissects three decades of pop culture through a feminist lens, is sure to be one of the standouts of the year.

New York Times
Amid pervasive rollbacks to women's rights in America, Gilbert...mounts a powerful argument that millennial pop culture 'turned a generation of women against themselves.'

Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
Gilbert deserves a medal—not only for her observations and conclusions, but for navigating the sludge she had to wade through to get there. Essential cultural criticism.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
In this triumphant debut, Pulitzer finalist Gilbert dissects three decades of pop culture, from the Riot Grrrl 1990s to the #Girlboss 2010s ... a tour de force of cultural criticism.

Author Blurb Hanna Rosin, author of The End of Men
Reading Girl on Girl feels like revisiting your memories with your brilliant protective older sister making sense of them for you. Her cultural criticism is as coolly sophisticated as it is deeply personal, making you feel like she's reading your mind. It's alarming to see so clearly how cruel the aughts were to young women. But the great payoff is, finally, self awareness.

Author Blurb Kate Manne, author of Down Girl and Unshrinking
With panache, wit, and brilliance, Sophie Gilbert's Girl on Girl offers compelling analyses of how mass culture has diluted and tainted feminism. A captivating must-read for anyone who wants to understand how and why misogyny is as powerful a force as ever.

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Jennicam and the Rise of a Life Lived Online

If you think about internet influencers, you might first consider your favorite cookbook blogger, Instagram fashion icon, or YouTube content creator. But, as Sophie Gilbert notes in a chapter on the rise of reality television in her book Girl on Girl, the very first person who might stake a claim to that title is a woman who, back in 1996, decided to switch on her webcam and start streaming—and, with rare exceptions, didn't turn it off for the next seven years.

Jennifer Ringley was a 19-year-old student at Dickinson College in Pennsylvania when she started the project, known as Jennicam. Hers was not the first live webcam—she was preceded by a coffee pot cam (started in 1993 and retired 10 years later) and a FishCam (...

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